Montag, 29. August 2011

Quality of moneyslavery

I am not a supporter of the theory that things were better in the old days. And it is nothing new under the sun that (usually older) men enjoy the fetish of moneyslavery, that means funding the pleasent lifestyle of young, pretty and money-loving women. But it was the internet that coined the term. It pushed forward this fetish that spilt over into Europe from the U.S. and triggered a boom here. Moneyslavery is flourishing, especially in the German speaking region. Thanks to the internet, thanks to the media - especially since the legendary "enlightenment programme" on the German RTL channel.

On the one side we may be pleased with the fact that our fetish is gaining fame but on the other side we risk to mess about with fakers. Jerking penny pinchers are trying to get profit for nothing, green female country bumpkins dream about the big money without knowledge of the piggy spirit. There are the true ladies and their male devotees on the one hand who know that real power can only be feminine. And then there are dubious profiteers and "pseudo-slaves" on the other hand. The dividing line between these two groups is getting smaller and smaller. Often the bounds of the different levels become indistinct to the interested observer – as long as he doesn't take the trouble to explore what moneyslavery is all about.
Go inside of the scene! Future slaves should inform themselves before doing the first step and if they are of good will, they may see that the fetish of moneyslavery is a philosophy of life. That it is all about a redistribution of power from the male sub to the female domme by money transfers.
Practicing moneyslavery generates an ecstasy of emotion – an ecstasy that rocks up and down with no limits to the top!

Bonus wankers and fake-ladies will never feel the "rush" I have described above. Their relationship will always be that of providing and buying a service, nothing more! Money for tits and never understanding that moneyslavery is a philosophy of life, an alternative lifestyle. Let's keep an eye on our fetish that it remains authentic and pure. And that all the blended versions go into the service compartment. 



Writer: SissySlut, Olaf


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Mittwoch, 23. Februar 2011

Moneyslavery and Money

Moneyslavery and money have to fit together. Nobody will disagree here – but in times of capitalism when money plays an important role, commerce will never be far away. The more this fetish became well-known in the past years, the more, almost unavoidably, commerce was growing also here, and this fact seems to fit well, too. Many people do surely think so, those who scent the small or the big deal and who sometimes also find it.
If it is fact that even myself as a 'new stager' is displeased about this, then the old stagers may even be much more disgruntled, those who know the origins of moneyslavery much better than I do. For sure, I don't want to go after a everything-has-been-better-in-the-past because it is almost never that easy, and especially when the past is regarded, many people show a tendency to glorify the past and regard facts much more positive than they have been in reality. Nevertheless it should be made obvious what moneyslavery has been about in its origins and what it still is about – or what it should still mean. Aside of the many facets which have been developing – not everything has become worse – it is a common fact that money is an important part of power and control, especially in times of capitalism, and it is not far-fetched to see that this fact may – and is allowed to – play its role in a lifestyle of dominance and submission. And this is already a very important argument, moneyslavery is a lifestyle, a fetish in which one person submits to another, and it is a relationship which can cause great happiness – for both parts of this relationship! There may be other aspects which play an important role between that people, this is often varying very much, but it is not at all important here.
For sure a big majority of people will never understand this, it is a logical fact, because it is almost always nearly impossible to have sympathy for something someone is not after. Even as a person who is fascinated by many aspects of BDSM, I am for example unable to understand where the fascination of having dozens of acuses in certain parts of the body is, or, even more general, a heterosexual man won't understand the fascination a homosexual man has of a male body. This is no problem at all, an intelligent person should be able to tolerate the likings of others and be able to accept that those people are having fun with their likings.
Anyway it is well-known that tolerance can't be found very often, but it even seems to be worse regarding moneyslavery. Last but not least, the fact that many people narrowly relate moneyslavery with commerce may here play an important role. And unfortunately it is easy for these people to find many arguments for this.
The arguments are delivered on a grand scale by those who make the small or the big deal on the back of this fetish. For example many girls who present themselves on websites with pornographic content, who present themselves on pictures or videos as 'devoted whores' are hoping for the small deal to earn some extra money. I should not be understood in a wrong way, I have no prejudices against girls who present themselves on pornographic websites, not at all. Every girl is allowed to do what she likes to do. But I do have no sympathy at all when the same girl presents herself as a 'naturally dominant mistress' on another website. Often they even seem to have no single idea what domination is anyway about, but they see some easily earned money. Eventually it should be much easier to collect cash from submissive men (and submissive is for them often the same as dumb!) without giving anything in return than to produce picures or videos and to sell these. In general they have not a single idea of fetish and know even less about the fascinacion of moneyslavery – and if someone is regarding this as commerce or rip-off than he will surely not be wrong. It could be seen as impudent, too, only 'beaten' by men who pretend to be women in favour to collect some money. But this is nothing else but deception and I do not want to say anything more about this here.
But even more arguments are delivered by those who want to make the big deal. Here business companies have to be named who operate with commercial websites with only one goal: to earn the big money on the back of a fetish. Extremely professional websites are designed, girls and even models are presented on them and the sites serve any well-known clichés of moneyslavery, and the only goal is to get cash out of it in any possible way. This is very successful for sure because many men are often not only thinking with their brain, which leads to the fact that they are willing to believe easily everything which is presented to them. And there is much to find for each taste, video sites, forums and typical pay-sites, too.
Perhaps it would not be that bad if the only problem was the low tolerance of people who are not affected to this fetish – because this is well-known anyway, and although this is a pity many people in this fetish have gotten used to this, and it is possible to accept this anyway. But for those who really want to live the fetish of moneyslavery it can lead to respectable negative consequences. The lady who doesn't have the commerce but the fetish in her spotlight will have problems to set herself apart of the pure business – and it may even be harder to convince anybody of that. It is even possible to say that all this is a general problem for the plausibility of the whole fetish of moneyslavery. It is not less a problem for a submissive man, because everybody who is willing to get an overview of this fetish has big problems not to find himself in the small or the big deal, and among those who see through this after some time, there will be many who are very disappointed – which will probably lead to the fact that they are not willing to continue their search for real moneyslavery, at least for a certain period of time. It is impossible, or at least very difficult for them to find their happiness beside of the pure commerce, the happiness of having the chance to serve a lady who really loves and lives the fetish of moneyslavery.
There are so many examples of happy moneyslavery relationships which lead to big pleasure for both sides, and I wish for everybody, no matter if lady or slave, to find the pleasure and happiness of a moneyslavery relationship beside of all dead ends – because it really pays off! And I understand this not (only) in the financial context.

Writer: Stefan

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Montag, 31. Januar 2011

Some thoughts concerning the *ELITE*

Everybody who had anyway been related to the domain of education – no matter if school or university – will hardly not have heared about terms like 'creation of profiles' or the 'elite'.
When terms are used so inflationary, they also find their place in different contexts, and so it has been in the context of moneyslavery where the term 'elite' can be found very frequently in those days.
Elite does normally define a group of people who are above average – in what ever manner. So it may appear obvious that a lady sees herself as above average, as standing above slaves – and that she defines herself as elite. When this issue is regarded more precisely, this is often (unfortunately) absurd, because if some self-appointed lady is regarded, it is often even hard to see average in that person. It may be a big wish of many submissive men to see a general 'women over men', but nevertheless this theory doesn't have to be anyway realistic. The praxis does show – and many people will surely agree here – that I respect  many slaves much more than many of those self-appointed ladies.
The consequence of this is that it may only make sense to call certain ladies of that scene elite. If this includes every lady who is authentic and who is somehow above average, then there is not much to say against this at first. But it causes problems anyway, soon will be the question which aspects should be important for this classification in categories. It is fact that all that ladies are individual in their way of life – and exactly this uniqueness is leading towards the fact that one lady will be adored and worshipped by one person – but the same lady may be quite uninteresting for another one. Maybe thoughts are different at this point of view, but at least one question should be allowed: Is it in any way possible to make a classification in categories for those individually great ladies – and: is this really necessary? The first question can be discussed for sure, but I believe that there is no need to discuss about this just because the second question has a clear answer – it is not necessary at all. A lady who is really gorgeous will have no need to let her classify in any category – which is somehow always a kind of pigeonhole someone. In her way of life she is great, she is gorgeous, above average. She is in fact superior, and knowing this will give her no need to be compared to anybody else because it will not be important for her how superior she is compared to anyone else.
By the way, similar arguments have led to the fact that I already did not like the term 'elite' by the time while I was studying. Elite was determined to grades – and my experiences have shown me that on the one side grades above average do not form an above average person and on the other side that a perhaps really above average person shows no need to be called so or even to be titled as elite. 
A friendly lady who surely is very far above average once said that there were many people who are afraid to contact her because of this fact. I can only say that I was not afraid at all to do – also because of my experiences with people who are above average. She was talking with me, surely she liked to do, otherwise she surely would not have done this. Should now somebody call me an 'elite slave'? For sure it is not necessary to be above average to find an answer for that question.


Writer: Stefan

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The thoughts and feelings of a slave

I have made up my mind what kind of information a single person is able to give refering to such an issue. The world of thoughts is complex and individual, so every slave will have his own individual thoughts and it can never be the goal to make general conclusions which fit to different people.
But perhaps the one or other person finds himself a bit in one or some more certain parts of this text.

Devoted is often seen as 'dumb', especially when money takes part of it. I've been thinking about it for a long time... can it make sense in some way to submit to a woman, because of her charming aura and to serve her.
Meanwhile I consider my devotion as a gift, the greatest gift that I am able to donate to somebody. There will be no way back, one is defenceless against his world of thoughts and feelings, but my personal conclusion is that this is nevertheless not bad or terrible. This is no reason to call this world reasonable – but aren't out there so many things which make people happy, which cause fun and are in no way related to rationality? So, why not also let the rationality back here too and go after someone's feelings?
I have learned to let go of those purely rational world and then there has been only a small step – though a step hard to go across a narrow, but deep abyss. You have to throw all doubt down into the deep, in order to enjoy all those huge and never ever expected feelings of happiness which can be enjoyed because of living your wishes and cravings.

It may be asked what this happiness is made of. As a submissive man my greatest pleasure is to see a woman, who I adore completely, happy, to be allowed to make her smile ever and ever again. These feelings do immediatly pass over to me – I borrow some words which describe it quite well:

Your good is my good
Your nice is my nice
Your true is my true
Your bad is my bad
Your sad is my sad
Your sad is my
VERY SAD
(cited and translated from a German song)

Yes, it is even increasing, I'm feeing very sad as long as she is sad, I'm unbelievably happy when she is well. One consequence of this is that the kind of my services is almost unimportant. In my thoughts it is not important that my personal desires have to be satisfied, no, it is all about her wishes and desires, and I do feel so very happy as long as I see a possibility to fulfil her wishes. If this means to suffer – financially or physically – it is very seldom that it is feeling like real suffering. Anyway fun makes its way inside of me, perhaps a bit of pride too, simply the fact to do it for her, no: to be allowed to do it for her. I have always considered it as a huge honour to be allowed to do things for her and do never consider this as self-evident. To receive attention of her, to gain her respect and to have the chance to take a little place in her life means pure happiness, a never known inner satisfaction which I can't compare with anything else I have had before.
It is outlasting, nothing ever to question. It is not only connected to a sexual arousing, it is inside of me simply all the time and it just won't go away. Perhaps exactly this is my biggest motivation, to remain this condition again and again, no matter what it takes to do this. My mind is telling me that there won't be any escape out of this world – but even when I think about it rationally, it is absolutely clear that I will never want to. All doubts are down there in the abyss, the wonderful feelings are still here. I may make her smile, I may make her happy and this fact does lead to my happiness and gladness. And can anything which makes someone so happy be irrational anyway?

Writer: Stefan


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